Written by Jeromy Carpenter
Published on May 5, 2014
Edmund White is a prolific writer and an icon of the Gay rights movement and the fight for equality for those living with HIV in America today. He has written a series of books beginning with his coming of age memoir, A Boy's Own Story, followed by his memoir about maturing to adulthood in The Beautiful Room is Empty, which culminates in the Stonewall riots of 1969 which he had the good timing to witness with his own eyes. His stories are easy to identify with as an angsty gay man who remembers the challenges of growing up gay in a country that didn't fully accept gays and lesbians at the time. His stories are a scrapbook of moments strung together with wonderfully descriptive detail and engrossing prose that will suck the reader in and keep him or her turning pages. Edmund has been a contributing writer to a number of publications and is currently teaching at Princeton University. His work captures the zeitgeist of not only his own generation but the ones that came after his as we progress through the gay rights movement and into a new era that will surely be better than the closeted days of the past.
I was fortunate enough to have
had the opportunity to interview Edmund recently at his home in Chelsea [a
neighborhood in Manhattan]. We discussed his books, his life and his thoughts
on the gay rights movement and the future of the HIV positive community in
America. Being HIV positive himself for decades, Edmund has been a pivotal
member of the community. He helped form the Gay Men's Health Crisis when the
AIDS crisis first began in the early 1980s. Not only is he very knowledgeable
and influential in the gay community, he also happens to be a very nice guy. I
very much enjoyed interviewing him. He seems to make as good a subject as he is
a writer.
If you are an aspiring young
writer, like me (although I'm not so young anymore), Edmund suggests that you
set your sights high and don't be discouraged easily. He says that you need to
be 'self affirming,' which means that you need to do what makes you happy
because it makes you happy and be content with that despite what others may
think. He didn't start publishing books until he was in his thirties and now he
has a whole collection of them. I personally, just turned 33 and have been a
contributing writer to a few gay news publications over the years, but have
never written a book or anything longer than a college paper. But, thanks to
modern medicine, I've been given a second shot at life and will hopefully live
long enough to see some of my work published someday in the longer form. As
with anything, practice makes perfect and the more you write, the more likely
something is to be read by somebody who appreciates it. So, to all the young
writers out there: keep writing!
I asked Edmund about the
progress of HIV issues in America today. Edmund expressed concern over the fact
that many people still aren't getting tested for HIV today. The reason people
aren't getting tested, according to Edmund, is because 'the attitudes on
cruising websites are so hateful.' The use of phrases like 'Are you clean?'
which inherently imply a kind of filth of those who might have HIV or other
STDs, is damaging to the effort to get people tested and treated because it
shames individuals from going to a doctor. People are afraid of being positive
and even more afraid of having to tell their sex partners if they are. Edmund
then pointed out something that I am well aware of, but many gay men still
haven't figured out yet, which is that an HIV positive man who is on medication
and has an undetectable viral load is a much safer person to have sex with than
someone who does not know their status or 'thinks' they're negative, but hasn't
been tested in over a year. It is those individuals who typically have the
highest viral loads and it is those individuals who are spreading the virus
today.
I then asked Edmund for some
advice for our readers, any young person living with HIV today. He stated that,
'You're not obliged to tell every person you fuck that you're positive.' There
is still a great deal of judgment toward HIV positive people out there,
especially in the gay community, unfortunately, and if you are taking your
medication and your viral load is undetectable, you're probably not going to
give anyone HIV. If, however, you want to enter into a dating relationship with
someone, Edmund pointed out, that it is nice to find someone else who is also
HIV positive, just so that you don't have to worry about the subject too much.
There also happen to be quite a few people out there who are HIV negative, but
who are OK with HIV positive people, because they understand what the real risk
is and they're not unduly frightened by it. Those people are also dating
material. But, as Edmund pointed out, our health is our responsibility, and
that means that nobody else is responsible for protecting you from HIV besides
you.
I asked Edmund about the
progress of the gay rights movement and where it's headed. He and I both agree
that the next twenty or thirty years will hopefully usher in an era of normalization
of gay life in America, not in the heteronormative way that so many militant
homosexuals are afraid of, but in a way that allows gays and lesbians to be who
they want to be, without being entirely consumed by their own gay identity. For
years, gay men have flocked to stereotypical gay careers, many of them feeling
compelled to do so in order to express their identity as a homosexual. But
Edmund's hope, and mine as well, is that in the years to come, a person will be
an engineer who happens to be gay, as opposed to a gay man who happens to be an
engineer. We're hoping that who we choose to love will not identify us so much
as merely describe a small part of who we are. Historically, going back to the
time of the Greeks, there hasn't even been a word for people who love others of
the same gender. Homosexuality is only a recent construct in the mind of
society and it is one that we all need to get over and put behind us so that we
can get on with the business of being ourselves. Edmund also speculated that
religion, which is the root cause of so much fear and loathing of gay people in
America today, will slowly die out in years to come (God, save us from your
followers!), and that will help further ease the transition of gays and
lesbians into mainstream culture in America.
My final question for Edmund
was 'What is the greatest challenge faced by the gay community today?' To which
he replied, 'If we're going to have a gay identity, then there should be some
nobler definition of it than cruising for guys on Grindr and going to the gym.
I always wished we would get involved with HIV in Africa. Some sort of public
service, because there are forty four million people with HIV/AIDS, and most of
them are in Africa.' I could not possibly agree more with Edmund. We have
fought so hard for medication, recognition, government assistance and respect
and we have come so far and the greatest tragedy of all would be if we let all
that hard work and all those lessons that we learned in the process go to waste
by not using them to help fight AIDS in Africa and around the world. We have
been given an incredible gift through our struggles with HIV and we now have a
responsibility to use that gift to make the world a better place for those
living with HIV in other countries.
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